6 Best NYC LGBTQIA+ Therapists — New York City Psychotherapy Collective

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6 Best LGBTQIA+ Therapists in NYC

LGBTQ AFFIRMING THERAPY IN NEW YORK CITY

YOU DESERVE A SAFE SPACE TO THRIVE.

  • We are committed to providing a safe and affirming space for LGBTQ+ individuals.

Our practice offers virtual therapy to help people across New York City and throughout New York state. We believe in matching the right therapist with the right client, which is why we prioritize the perfect fit above everything else. Our practice isn't just LGBTQIA+ friendly, but we only have actively affirming therapists who are welcoming of all.

We use inclusive language that respects all gender identities and sexual orientations, which can also involve things like using terms like "partner" and avoiding heteronormative assumptions. We are committed to providing a safe, supportive space for healing and growth.

6 Best NYC LGBTQIA+ Therapists

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1. Anjna Arun

Mental Health Counselor - Limited Permit

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2. JULIA LAPLAZA

Licensed Mental Health Counselor

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3. Maggie Mccarthy

Licensed Master Social Worker

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4. Laina Mason

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Clinical Supervisor

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5. Gabriella Giachin

Licensed Master Social Worker

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6. Allison Soss

Licensed Mental Health Counselor

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PRIDE AND PERIL: THE PARADOX OF LIVING AUTHENTICALLY IN AN UNWELCOMING WORLD

As a member of the LGBTQIA+ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer/questioning, intersex, asexual, and more) community, you may have the cognitive dissonance of feeling joy while attending Pride parades, celebrating love, and expressing yourself authentically while also fearing for your safety at those events, watching anti-LGBTQIA+ legislation being passed, and worrying about the health of those you love. 

And we don’t forget: the first Pride was a riot. How are you supposed to live your truth and be who you are meant to be when there are lawmakers in this country who want to take away all of your rights? When will you get to live with the same freedoms that everyone else has? LGBTQ therapy needs to understand all of the multitudes contained within the lived experiences of queer people.

Do any of these thoughts resonate with you?

  • "I see all these anti-LGBTQIA+ laws being passed, and it makes me feel hopeless and scared about the future."

  • “My family makes weird comments at gatherings. I love them but it makes me dread the holidays because I don’t feel like I am accepted.”

  • “I’m the only gay person at work and I feel like I have to be perfect all of the time as a representative of our entire community.”

  • "I'd feel more comfortable talking to a therapist who understands my lived experience in some way."

  • "It would be helpful to find someone who can help me manage my anxiety and depression, but also understands the specific experiences of being queer in this country."

  • “I just want the same things everyone else does: happiness, love, and success.”

  • "I want to feel a part of the LGBTQ community, live in a safe environment, and thrive in NYC."

Whatever the reasons bringing you to therapy today, you deserve to feel safe, free of judgment, and supported.

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EXPERIENCES SPECIFIC TO THE LGBTQIA+ COMMUNITY: 

We know that your community is not a monolith and your lived experience will be different from everyone else’s, even where there are similarities. We believe that every letter in the LGBTQIA+ acronym deserves to be heard for its uniqueness. Your diversity is what makes you special, and you deserve to work with a therapist who has extensive experience in your specific issues related to your identities, who is non judgmental, and who has a strong sense of their own identity in your work together.

Navigating your identity within the larger context of work, dating, friendships, and every other space you occupy can cause tension in your personal relationships, miscommunications at work, and feelings of not belonging. We understand why members of the LGBTQIA+ community may be experiencing increased levels of depression, higher incidences of anxiety disorders, suicidal ideation, disordered eating, problematic substance use, identity issues, low self esteem, or overall hopelessness. 

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You deserve to get the LGBTQ affirming care you deserve from specifically trained New York therapists.

Taking care of yourself is not a luxury–it’s essential in a fast-paced world like ours.

You deserve to work with a therapist who is dedicated to authentic care, knows the difference between gender and sexuality, and will never struggle to use the correct pronouns.

That’s where we come in.

Psychotherapy that is specifically tailored to the LGBTQIA+ community by both allies and members of the community will provide a supportive, safe, and inclusive space to be who you are, exactly as you are. 

Through LGBTQ therapy in NYC, new clients here can:

  • Explore your gender identity and sexual orientation

  • Address your substance abuse

  • Navigate the process and potential challenges of coming out

  • Identify and process family dynamics, including creating families of every configuration and deciding if or how you want to raise children

  • Work through feelings of resentment or shame resulting from negative social attitudes towards your community, particularly towards transgender people

  • Process the long-lasting impact on your mental and emotional well-being from intergenerational trauma

  • Create healthy and loving romantic relationships that work for you through a queer theory lens

  • Help you not just cope with challenging situations at work, but truly thrive in your career 

If you are a member of the LGBTQIA+ community and find yourself facing increased levels of anxiety, depression, or hopelessness, know that you are not alone. If you're struggling with anxiety, depression, self-harm, family relationships, or discrimination, we are here to support you in a non judgmental environment on your path to self-love and serenity. Connect with one of our therapists today and take the first step toward healing.

As an intersectional therapy practice, and human beings living in the greater NYC area, we stand with and support our clients who are members of the LGBTQIA+ community both in our individual practices and in larger advocacy acts.

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We believe in matching the right therapist with the right client, which is why we prioritize the perfect fit above everything else. When you work with us, you will begin to feel more understood, learn to communicate your needs more clearly, and create happier, healthier connections with the people you care about. You'll gain tools to manage conflict, express yourself openly, and build stronger bonds, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling life. We approach our work through a culturally competent, culturally responsive, and anti-racist lens. We are an intersectional and feminist practice.

Kimberlé Crenshaw, an American law professor who coined the term in 1989, defines intersectionality as “a prism for seeing the way in which various forms of inequality often operate together and exacerbate each other.” In other words, our gender, race, culture, ethnicity, religion, able-bodiedness, and various other factors interplay within the systems in which we operate, and we must address all of them as they interact. We must consider all factors that impact the systems in which we operate.

WE ARE ALWAYS STRIVING TO LEARN AND PROVIDE THE BEST AFFIRMING CARE POSSIBLE.

We are always learning as both practitioners and supervisors, and we encourage our clients to pursue frank and open discussions with their therapist about how race, culture, gender, sexuality, and any other identity markers will show up in the room during your work together.


Here’s what’s next.

  1. Fill out our contact form. Share some information about you so that we can match you with the perfect therapist for your needs. You can submit your insurance information prior to the call so we can verify your benefits and copay.

  2. Book a free consultation. After you fill out our form, have a low-pressure, 20-minute call with your therapist to make sure they are the right fit.

  3. Get the care you deserve. Schedule your first session and start on your journey to feeling better right away.


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